Njengoko abantwana bekhula, baqala ukuzimela kakhulu kwaye banqwenela ukwazi ukwenza izinto ngokwabo. Isixhobo esiqhelekileyo abazali bahlala bezazisa ukunceda kule nkululeko intsha entsha yiI-Ladder Stool. Izitulo zenyathelo zilungile kubantwana, zibavumela ukuba bafikelele izinto ngaphandle kokuba bafumane imisebenzi ababeza kugqiba ngenye indlela. Kodwa ngaba abantwana bafuna ngokwenene izitulo zenyathelo?
Isidingo sesitulo senyathelo sinokwahluka kakhulu kuxhomekeka kubude bomntwana, kodwa ngokubanzi, uninzi lwabantwana luqalisa ukufuna inyathelo phakathi kweminyaka emi-2 neye-3. Abantwana abanomdla, befuna ukuphonononga indawo abahlala kuyo. Ukuzibandakanya kwimisebenzi ababengakwazi ukwenza ngaphambili. Nokuba ufikelele kwiglasi kwiKhabhinethi yasekhitshini okanye ukuxubha amazinyo akho phambi kwegumbi lokuhlambela, isitulo senyathelo sinokubonelela ngoncedo oluyimfuneko.
Kubalulekile ukukhetha isitulo senyathelo esifanelekileyo kubudala bomntwana wakho kunye nobungakanani. Jonga iimveliso ezizomeleleyo kwaye zineenyawo ezingatyibilikiyo ukuthintela nayiphi na ingozi. Ukongeza, khetha isitoli senyathelo ngesibambo okanye isikhokelo sikaloliwe ukubonelela ngenkxaso eyongezelelweyo kunye nozinzo.
Ukwazisa inyathelo lesitulo ngexesha elifanelekileyo kunokunceda ukuphuhlisa izakhono zemoto yakho kunye nolungelelwaniso. Ukuvuka ezantsi kwesitulo kufuna ibhalansi kunye nolawulo, kulomeleza izihlunu zabo kwaye kuphucula ubuchule babo obutshatile. Ikwakhuthaza ukuba basombulule iingxaki ukufikelela kwiinjongo zabo ozifunayo.
Ngelixa inyathelo lenyathelo lenzelwe ukubonelela ngendlela ekhuselekileyo nefanelekileyo yokuba abantwana bafikelele kumphezulu ophezulu, kubalulekile ukuba abazali balisobekele abantwana babo ngalo lonke ixesha xa besebenzisa. Nokuba uninzi lwamanyathelo okuthatha inyameko, iingozi zinokwenzeka. Qiniseka ukuba umntwana wakho uyayiqonda indlela yokusebenzisa isitulo senyathelo ngokufanelekileyo kwaye asikhokele de bakhululekile kwaye bazithemba ngokuzimeleyo.
Konke kubo bonke, aInyathelo lesituloinokuba sisixhobo esixabisekileyo sabantwana njengoko bekhula kwaye bazimele ngakumbi. Ngokubanzi, abantwana baqala ukufuna isitulo senqanaba elijikeleze iminyaka emi-2 ukuya kwele-3, kodwa oku kuxhomekeke kubude babo kunye nophuhliso lomntu ngamnye. Ngokukhetha inyathelo elifanelekileyo lesifungo kwaye wazisa ngexesha elifanelekileyo, abazali banokunceda abantwana bafumane ubuchule obutsha, baphuhlise izakhono zabo zemoto, kwaye bakhuthaze inkululeko ngendlela ekhuselekileyo nexhasayo.
IXESHA LOKUQALA: UNv-17 ukuya ku-923
